Deal Breakers

Deal breakers are actions that will cause harm to me or the House in a way that may be grounds for removal of my collar and/or termination of the relationship. I believe in compassion and forgiveness, but not at the cost of my or the House’s well-being. As your Master, I’m committed to helping you understand and resolve what’s making you act this way and how to improve it. However, if you break my trust and cause me or the House harm, I do not know if I will be able to recover and will work for my and the House’s survival.

Abandonment:

Abandonment means leaving without notice or discussion. I have serious issues with abandonment: I find myself going into survival mode with the goal of self preservation. In order for me to be an effective Master, I must trust you will not abandon me or this House.

Malicious Conduct:

Malicious Conduct means knowingly, intentionally, and/or maliciously causing harm to another individual, yourself, or property. When people are malicious to the ones they care about or love, I often find myself confused.

Breach of Trust:

Breach of Trust means when you do something that in your head, heart, or soul knows that you should tell me or the House yet you do not. When my trust is broken is can be hard to recover from but it can happen. I know we all make mistakes and will try to be compassionate within what I define as reasonable for the sake of myself and the House.

Disobedience:

I require obedience if you wear my collar, plain and simple. I can become very stubborn when I am met with willful resistance, especially if I know it is in your best interest. If you believe an order I have given will truly cause you harm, it is your responsibility to bring this to my attention in a respectful manner for us to discuss.